Personal Profiles

Personal profiles are really hard to write. I would not have make it
in marketing because I can' t even market myself. A friend asked me to
write two paragraphs but I can't. I asked her for an outline still I
can't. Is it me or other people experience the same? She is a write I
know that she will edit it but its still hard. I will try for the last
time now and see what comes out.

South African National Team

Bafana Bafana, still no luck after seven games and won one game
against Madagascar. It is mentioned that SAFA is preparing a list of
people who are going to take over from Joel Santana. This come after
they have delegated three people to evaluate how Santana is working.
Jomo Sono is one of the three delegates and is well known for his
critic on foreign coaches. Personally, I hate the blame the coach
attitude that South Africans tend to do everytime. Yes, the coach is
the leader but what about the actual players who are supposed to score
goals and give the country smiles.

Someone commented that Bafana Bafana Players must know that wearing
the National jersey is not a right its a priviledge. They need to work
hard inorder to be called National players. I always say they lack
patriotism, for them its about money how much they earn and its a
bonus to play for the national team. What happened to the team who won
Africa Cup of Nations, back then we saw what patriotism meant they
were doing it for us. That was the happiest day of my life. I was
proud to be a South African.

They must remember that they need to work as a TEAM (Together Each
Achieves More) and yes we are disappointed but they are our boys and
we want to see them change their performance to better. And we can't
deny them, we are South Africans and they are called South Africa
National Team its not like supporting Pirates or Chiefs where you can
change clubs if you are not happy with them. I don't think its wise to
change coach at this point, I think what should be done is to get
assistant coach but not Jomo because Santana will resign first thing
in the morning if this happens and they would not survive each other.
What happened to CLIVE BARKER he is the man for the job to sit, talk,
strategise and share with Joel from his lessons when we won Africa Cup
of Nations.

No offense to those who believe in polygamy

Polygamy is a tradition to others, I believe it biased because only men are allowed to do in our country. What makes me wonder is how can those women agree to such a thing. If it was my mother I would understand, because in those days they were made to understand that it was for the best to have more than one wife (will deal with this some other time). I was shocked a couple of weeks ago when Mr Mbhele announced that he was getting married with four women - same day. I could not believe it at this age and time.

We had a brief discussion about it with my friends and one stated that she is not surprised why the ladies chose to commit in such a relationship. Her analysis is that they are ugly so they grabbed the opportunity with both hands, its her opinion I wonder what they were thinking. When you look at the pictures not even one is smiling, you suppose to smile on your big day does this tell us something??? The bridegroom claimed that he was cutting cost by wedding them all at the same time and he bought each a house to avoid issues.

Does this mean he knows that his newly brides can't stand each other? Was Mr Mbhele showing us that he is powerful and can afford many wives??? No one can answer these questions but we wish them all the best. Another shock in less than a month after Mbhele is Mbongeni Ngema's preparations to wed 5 I mean five wives next year again before this was published this week, last week we learned that he is going to pay ilobola (bride's price) to Mroza's family (Ukhozi FM presenter) we were shocked not that we don't want Mbongeni to wed but Mroza...

She is still young and her career have just started, is it love that she can agree to such a thing???? Is it desperation, power or the need to belong somewhere? Some might say I am jealous but believe me I am not just scared for what is going to happen. Yes, I am the jealous type when it comes to my partner, how can I officially share a man of my life with someone else? I will never do it never!!! How can I smile and greet my partner's girlfriend? I don't even want to think about it...

All in all, I would like to sit and talk to these women and really see things in their point of view.